Coupled With...

Coupled With... is a podcast for partners wanting to work on their relationship. Through the episodes there will be a mix of interviews with other experts in the field as well as solo episodes where Dr. Rachel shares her expertise. No topic is out of bounds, and there is nothing she hasn't heard before. Coupled with is hosted by doctor of psychology, Dr. Rachel Orleck, who is certified in emotionally focused couples counseling and specializes in working with couples from a foundation in attachment.

Roommates to Lovers Again

Dr. Rachel Orleck

Published on: 24/11/2025

Feeling more like roommates than lovers? Learn why desire hides under stress and how small acts of safety and curiosity can rebuild the spark — without forcing it.

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Solace Sex vs. Safe Sex: When Intimacy Becomes Survival Instead of Connection

Dr. Rachel Orleck

Published on: 20/10/2025

Learn the difference between solace sex and safe sex—how nervous system survival drives disconnection, and how empathy, honesty, and safety rebuild real intimacy.

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Why You Feel Rejected in Bed: Understanding Sexual and Emotional Cycles

Dr. Rachel Orleck

Published on: 20/08/2025

Why sex feels like rejection: how emotional and sexual cycles collide—and small shifts that rebuild safety, closeness, and desire.

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