Coupled With...

Coupled With... is a podcast for partners wanting to work on their relationship. Through the episodes there will be a mix of interviews with other experts in the field as well as solo episodes where Dr. Rachel shares her expertise. No topic is out of bounds, and there is nothing she hasn't heard before. Coupled with is hosted by doctor of psychology, Dr. Rachel Orleck, who is certified in emotionally focused couples counseling and specializes in working with couples from a foundation in attachment.


Apologies, Safety, and Nervous System Healing

Apologies, Safety, and Nervous System Healing


Apologies, Safety, and Nervous System HealingDr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 14/09/2025

Why ‘I’m sorry’ often falls flat: your nervous system needs safety first. Learn what makes an apology truly land in relationships.

Nervous SystemCommunicationRepair

You Don't Want to be Right - You Want to be Understood

You Don't Want to be Right - You Want to be Understood


You Don't Want to be Right - You Want to be UnderstoodDr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 05/09/2025

Winning an argument won’t bring you closer. Learn why being “right” feels so empty in love, and how to shift toward being understood.

Nervous SystemCommunicationRepair

When Silence Hurts: The Hidden Impact of the Silent Treatment

When Silence Hurts: The Hidden Impact of the Silent Treatment


When Silence Hurts: The Hidden Impact of the Silent Treatment
Dr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 13/08/2025

When silence replaces connection, it hurts. Here’s why—and what to do instead.

AttachmentNervous SystemCommunication
Finding Safety Without Shutting Down

Finding Safety Without Shutting Down

Finding Safety Without Shutting DownDr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 13/08/2025

If you’ve ever felt like you're walking on eggshells just to avoid setting your partner off, this episode is for you. We explore what it’s like to be on the receiving end of reactivity—and how to protect your nervous system without losing connection.

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