Coupled With...

Coupled With... is a podcast for partners wanting to work on their relationship. Through the episodes there will be a mix of interviews with other experts in the field as well as solo episodes where Dr. Rachel shares her expertise. No topic is out of bounds, and there is nothing she hasn't heard before. Coupled with is hosted by doctor of psychology, Dr. Rachel Orleck, who is certified in emotionally focused couples counseling and specializes in working with couples from a foundation in attachment.


Debunking the Perfect-Partner Myth in Love

Debunking the Perfect-Partner Myth in Love


Debunking the Perfect-Partner Myth in LoveDr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 31/08/2025

Real security isn’t found in a perfect partner—it’s built through repair, pauses, and imperfect moments that create lasting connection.

AttachmentNervous System

Why You Feel Rejected in Bed: Understanding Sexual and Emotional Cycles

Why You Feel Rejected in Bed: Understanding Sexual and Emotional Cycles


Why You Feel Rejected in Bed: Understanding Sexual and Emotional CyclesDr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 20/08/2025

Why sex feels like rejection: how emotional and sexual cycles collide—and small shifts that rebuild safety, closeness, and desire.

AttachmentNervous SystemIntimacy

Why You Keep Chasing (or Shutting Down): The Real Cause of the Pursue–Withdraw Cycle

Why You Keep Chasing (or Shutting Down): The Real Cause of the Pursue–Withdraw Cycle


Why You Keep Chasing (or Shutting Down): The Real Cause of the Pursue–Withdraw CycleDr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 13/08/2025

When silence replaces connection, it hurts. Here’s why—and what to do instead.

AttachmentNervous System

When You Know Better, But Still Spiral

When You Know Better, But Still Spiral


When You Know Better, But Still SpiralDr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 13/08/2025

When silence replaces connection, it hurts. Here’s why—and what to do instead.

AttachmentNervous System