Coupled With...

Coupled With... is a podcast for partners wanting to work on their relationship. Through the episodes there will be a mix of interviews with other experts in the field as well as solo episodes where Dr. Rachel shares her expertise. No topic is out of bounds, and there is nothing she hasn't heard before. Coupled with is hosted by doctor of psychology, Dr. Rachel Orleck, who is certified in emotionally focused couples counseling and specializes in working with couples from a foundation in attachment.


When They Say Sorry, But Nothing Changes

When They Say Sorry, But Nothing Changes


When They Say Sorry, But Nothing ChangesDr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 10/11/2025

When “I’m sorry” starts to mean nothing, your nervous system notices. Learn why apologies without change create burnout—and how real repair rebuilds safety.

AttachmentNervous SystemCommunicationTrust

The “Chill Partner” Lie: Why Calm Doesn’t Always Mean Connection

The “Chill Partner” Lie: Why Calm Doesn’t Always Mean Connection


The “Chill Partner” Lie: Why Calm Doesn’t Always Mean ConnectionDr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 03/11/2025

Calm isn’t always connection. Learn why the “chill partner” often hides emotional shutdown—and how honesty, not silence, rebuilds safety in love.

AttachmentNervous SystemTrust

Why Saying “I’m Fine” Makes Things Worse: How False Calm Erodes Connection

Why Saying “I’m Fine” Makes Things Worse: How False Calm Erodes Connection


Why Saying “I’m Fine” Makes Things Worse: How False Calm Erodes ConnectionDr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 27/10/2025

Learn why “I’m fine” quietly erodes trust and connection, what your body’s really saying when you shut down, and how micro-honesty helps rebuild emotional safety.

AttachmentNervous SystemTrust

Knowing Isn’t Enough: Why Insight Won’t Save Your Relationship

Knowing Isn’t Enough: Why Insight Won’t Save Your Relationship


Knowing Isn’t Enough: Why Insight Won’t Save Your RelationshipDr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 13/08/2025

Still stuck in the same fight? This episode unpacks why insight fails in conflict—and what your body needs to finally break the pattern.

AttachmentNervous SystemTrustRepair