Coupled With...

Coupled With... is a podcast for partners wanting to work on their relationship. Through the episodes there will be a mix of interviews with other experts in the field as well as solo episodes where Dr. Rachel shares her expertise. No topic is out of bounds, and there is nothing she hasn't heard before. Coupled with is hosted by doctor of psychology, Dr. Rachel Orleck, who is certified in emotionally focused couples counseling and specializes in working with couples from a foundation in attachment.

Finding Safety Without Shutting Down

Finding Safety Without Shutting Down

Finding Safety Without Shutting DownDr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 13/08/2025

If you’ve ever felt like you're walking on eggshells just to avoid setting your partner off, this episode is for you. We explore what it’s like to be on the receiving end of reactivity—and how to protect your nervous system without losing connection.

AttachmentNervous SystemCommunicationTrust
The Hidden Hurt Behind the Household Chore Fight

The Hidden Hurt Behind the Household Chore Fight

The Hidden Hurt Behind the Household Chore FightDr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 06/08/2025

Why couples fight over chores, how attachment shapes resentment, and how to shift into teamwork without blame, burnout, or nagging.

Nervous SystemCommunication
Breaking Free from the Reactivity Trap

Breaking Free from the Reactivity Trap

Breaking Free from the Reactivity TrapDr. Rachel Orleck
Published on: 06/08/2025

Feel hijacked by your own reactions in conflict? Learn why it happens and how to shift from shame to connection in your relationship.

Nervous System